The Lives of 2 beautiful souls + 1 more..*love*

Oook..Mummy is in a bad mood..Her $95 pant suit has been ruined by e maid..My maid has a serious attitude problem..When she ruin somethin, she wun admit it..She will wait till e owner of e clothes she ruin find out for herself..Or rather she hopes it wun get discovered..She ALWAYS misplace my clothes, burn some of them and even discolored them wit clorox!! bingit!!

I shall share one incident..

I wanted to wear a nice dress to work so I asked her to iron for me..After I wore it, I wanted to tie my hair, den I discovered it..E whole left armpit side of my baju was torn!!! U can c e my entire armpit man!!! Goodness, I am teachin!! If I were to lift my left arm, e children can c my armpit!! Thankfully, its clean shaven n its powderpuffed..heh..

So I went to her n told her y didnt u tell me tat its torn?? I will translate our conversation to English..

She: Oh..Its alredy torn since e last time u wore it..
Me: *da bingit, pandai menjawab eh!*No, I wore it 2 wks ago and it was fine..
She: *silent*
Me: Now look, its torn, y didnt u tell me? If I didnt notice, I would have worn it to work!
She: I tot u knew..
Me: *dumbfounded and speechless for a moment..cant believe she is tat dumb*
Me: Would I wear somethin which is torn to work??????????????????????

Case closed..

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Weddin/Marriage talk now..

If u were to ask me wat I am tinkin of now when u ask me abt my wedding preparations, I will be thinkin abt my marriage life..Not my weddin..I dunno y..

I am ecstatic abt gettin married..I have been wit darlin for more than 9 years alredy..Its somethin we are lookin forward to..Bt lately, I have been thinkin more of my soon-to-be marriage life..

As for my wedding preparations, all are ok..Settled mak andam, caterer, deco, photography/videography..I am juz left wit finding berkat,settlin weddin cards and hantaran gifts for darlin..I hope e CC is available for my weddin so I can settle e weddin cards asap..Kalo tak, will haf to find another venue..

So basically, my preparations are ok..tak payah fening fening lagik.. :)

I am more concerned abt soon-to-be marriage life..

Studies/Family/House/Children/Transport

Studies:
Alhamdulillah by the time, I am married, I am done wit my Degree..Abg will start his Degree early next year..Its good tat he takes e initiative to study again..We both believe in life long learning.. :)

I will haf to be e supportin wife who prepare soups/drinks n minyak kapak for my lovable hubby as he burns e midnight oil doin his asgmts..haha!!

When both are armed wit Degrees, we are more capable in providin a beta future for ourselves n our family.. :)

Family:
What I mean by family is my future ILs and my own family..

Knowin tat I will be stayin wit abg from e moment we wed, I will be spendin less time wit my own family..Tho it hurts me as I tink abt leavin my own family, I am excited in startin a brand new chapter wit my hubby-to-be..I will be in totally diff environment..Qn is could I adapt? I know it will be tuff bt wit darlin by my side, I am confident I will adapt no matter how long or slow it takes.. :P

I will neva abandon my own family, of coz..Since I will be stayin wit my in-laws, I will make sure I will visit my own family durin e weekends..Alah..Currently, darlin n me onli live 1 street apart..hahaha!! Kalo rindu jer, I can juz take a 10 min walk to my home..no biggy, am sure darlin will understand cos I am very attached to my family.. :)

House:
We have applied for e DBSS flats..Awaitin results..If dapat, alhamdulillah..If not, we bersyukur..

If dapat, darlin n me will need to look into our finances and scrutinise wateva tat is not necessary..We will have to be more careful wit our money..E flats will be ready by 2009..Darlin n me need to save up for household appliances as the house is alredy beautifully renovated..Darlin nak plasma tv!! I juz wan a gd fridge to store my goodies, washin machine to wash my tons of clothes n an oven so I can bake my cookies! heh..We would also need to pay back loans from my daddy as we would need to take loan from him for e 5% downpayment n daddy alredy offered his help..Tankie u,abah! *muackz*

If we dun get, we would get a resale flat near our families..Tat again, need to reevaluate our finances as we may need to renovate e house..Bt wit our families' support, it wun be a problem..InsyaAllah..

Children:
We would ensure that we have family plannin..I noe children are God's gifts..Bein a preschool educator, I definitely adore children n so do dearie..

Initially, we were thinkin of startin a family after dearie completed his Degree studies..Bt tat would be by 2010 as he would take 3 years to complete his Degree as its part time studies..By then, I am 27..Dont wan to wait tat long to start a family..

My mummy alredy told me not to start plannn durin e first years of marriage..She advised me to enjoy my first year of marriage n to have a child one year after my wedding..After havin a child, den we can haf our family planning..To have such advice from someone who meticulously spaced out her children 4 years n 4 months is a blessin..Shall heed ur advice,mummy!

I wan 4 children..2 gals n 2 boys..Kalo ada twins, lagik best!

I noe of which financial plans to haf when we haf children..I wan to start a savings acct for them as soon as they are born..Tat would be of great help for their future.. :)

Transport:
Alhamdulillah, both of us alredy have our driving licenses..Bt havin a car is nt in our agenda @ e moment..Dearie told me of his plans for us: wedding/house/children/car..He told me havin children are more impt than ownin a car..I agree as ownin a car is juz a luxury..Its not a necessity..

I dun wish for us to be materialistic..Alhamdulillah, we manage our living thru our means and do not demand for extravagant stuffs..So if u ask me if I am jealous to c my pals who haf bfs/fiances/husbands wit bikes/cars, I will be brutally honest n say no..Good for them..If they wan a bike/car so much, up to them lor! Yang tak plan finances properly n nanti sangkut bayar pun its them wat..I am fine wit travellin via bus and train..So dun judge me wrongly hor..N dun push ideas down my throat..I have my own views and beliefs how I should lead my life..I dun disturb urs so dun disturb mine..

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I went to Suntec yesterdae, hopin to go to e sale..To my disappointment, e sale ended @ 7 pm..My sistaz, darlin n me reached there @ abt 8 plus..heh..It wasnt a wasted trip as I got my raya shoes..Mean wedges from Charles & Keith..I love my wedges!!! :D

My raya preparations are nt complete yet..Still haf to get my contacts..Wonder wat color I shld use this year..Hmmmm..

Happy weekends and a Happy Deepavali to all Hindus! :)

Pssst!! I am so addicted to my current blog song..Been replayin it over n over again.. :P