The Lives of 2 beautiful souls + 1 more..*love*

I am a patient person(I reli try to be!)..Yes, some things do make me pissed but normally I keep my cool..

However, an incident that happened yesterday made me sooo pissed till even now!!

Here are the many parts of that stupid incident..

1st: 'Careers come first, then family'

Only A MINDLESS IDIOT would think that way..
I totally disagree!!
In these times, where families become smaller and outside influences are greater, my husband and I agreed that we work to live and not live to work..We work because we have to, not because we want to..Yes, we do want to provide the best for our family, why do u tink I am workin?! I want to help out with the family finances..
But at the end of the working day, we want nothing more than to come back to our home and be with our daughter..She is the reason why we work so hard..

Families are forever..Imagine when u r so busy at work, u miss ur child's first few milestones..When she starts to crawl..Her first steps..Her first words..Her first potty-training..Soon, she will start school..Then, she starts having friends, we do not wish our child to have the unwanted negative influences..When ur child turns unruly, cant be disciplined, doesnt treasure u..Who do u blame?

So career come first?? Definitely not for my family..All these moments cant be bought with time..Once u miss them, u miss out on these precious moments..So when u r busy chasing your career, what's left far behind is ur family..

2nd: I should be MORE UNDERSTANDING..

Take this scenario..Ur husband falls sick, yet he gets countless emails n calls to settle some urgent work..What do u do? U ask him, 'do u need to do it?' Most of the times, he will reply, 'I've got no choice'..

This doesnt happen once or twice..It happens EVERYTIME he is away from work..Be it childcare leave/taking leave/mc..

How do u feel???

Irregardless of what I say, husband will attend to all the 'urgent' work and in the end, instead of restin, he is still indeed working..

I would love to carry on and dish out all other stupid nonsense but I am too tired right now..

Btw, have u guessed who this nonsense sprouting person is?

Its husband's boss(soon to be ex-boss)..

@#$%^&*()(*&^%$#@#$

Thank goodness, husband has gotten a new job and wouldnt be dealing with such a person anymore..

Alhamdulillah!!