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About Aranel & Alatariel

Met in 1996..Gotten together in 1997..
Engaged in 2006..Married in 2007..
Basking in marital bliss..
Welcomed Baby Auni into our lives on 150708..
Blessed and in bliss..Alhamdulillah.. :)



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    Thursday, July 31, 2008
    Went to KKH to change my dressing..Alhamdulillah, no more pus..Still have some fluids though, so I have to come back till there's no more fluids and that the inner flesh has healed..

    Baby Auni's jaundice has gone down but not as fast as the doc wants so she too needs to go back to the polyclinic once every 2-3 days to get it checked..

    So far so good..

    DH and myself are recovering from the flu bug..Baby Auni too..Alhamdulillah..

    Now my Mummy has it..Hehehe..She is taking meds so that she can get back to romos-ing her cucu.. :P

    Hmmm..

    I am in a fix now..

    There are some issues that are making me uncomfortable yet I cannot do anything as I do not wish to offend/hurt that particular party..But what must I do to make my points clear??

    I wish people would understand that
    1. Baby Auni is MY daughter..
    2. I may be a first time Ummi but there are certain things I believe in and wish to implement so please just let it be..
    3. I did undergo preschool training and had a module about infant care so I do know a thing or two about caring for infants so please do not look at me a certain way when I share about what I've learnt.. :(
    4. I am still learning so please give me room to learn and make mistakes..
    5. What applies ages ago, may not necessarily be relevant now..
    6. I was told endlessly that when guests come for visiting, they are to relax first for a few minutes, maybe have a drink before Baby Auni is presented to them..Some just barge in and attack her..*sigh*
    7. When I am correcting something, please take heed cos that's my daughter and I want her to be nurtured a certain way.. :(
    Basically, I feel some people do not give me the respect I deserve..My patience is running thin..Bottomline is that she is MY daughter..Everything concerning her, needs to be reverted to me or DH..I understand that you have good intentions, but please, we are her parents..Let us grow, let us learn..We can't if you keep forcing your beliefs on us and not listening to us on how we want her to be brought up..

    Sometimes, its just so hard..

    :(